It’s one of the BDSM dating sites I’ve tried

Living in NYC, I’ve come to accept the variety and even the oddest walks of life. Well, I thought that some people were odd until I dug deeper and learned about my inner likings. I’m talking about the bondage stuff. Funny, I had no idea this was my thing until recently. Today I’m covering a site called Collarspace.

Collarspace Review: The Kinky BDSM Forum

I’ve used many different types of dating sites in my years and I’ll admit, sometimes I feel like boring, vanilla sex and sometimes I crave something a little less, shall we say, normal.

My Collarspace Review

Of course, normal is subjective. But, for me, when I’m craving some kink, it usually falls into the category of BDSM. And no, I don’t mean the whole ‘50 Shades of Lady-Porn’ type of BDSM, but legit bondage, dominance, and sadomasochism. I won’t delve too deeply into what I enjoy in the bedroom in that regard, that’s nobody’s business, but sometimes I just crave it rough.

When I’m feeling a little more frisky than normal, I tend to check out BDSM sites that I haven’t used before just to see what new folks I might stumble across. One of these sites I recently gave a try is called Collarspace.

Don’t let the name completely creep you out. Yes, Collarspace is a fetish site, but it isn’t associated with anything illegal or waaaay out there. If you’ve tried any other fetish dating sites like Alt, Fetlife, or Fetster, then you’ve pretty much been exposed to similar things.

I’ve used those sites, and they’re great, but sometimes I want to open up my options and see if anyone new is local to me instead of spanking the same old people. But, how does Collarspace stack up to the bigger fetish dating sites? Well, here is what I found in my time trying out Collarspace.

Let me start my review with this warning: When you land on the Collarspace website, you’re most likely going to be like, “What the hell year was this made?”

Trust me, I get why you’re saying that. Collarspace looks like an old-school dating site if I’ve ever seen one. But what do “they” always say? You know the “they” I’m talking about; the ones that say all the wise things, but nobody has ever met “them.”

“They” say: Don’t judge a book by its cover. And with Collarspace, you shouldn’t. The simple design of Collarspace may give you pause, but is shouldn’t dissuade you from joining this large fetish community.

If you want an easy dating site sign-up process, Collarspace has it. After you’ve provided your username, email address, password, and location, you’re a member. That isn’t the only information you’re going to have to give them, though, and you shouldn’t expect it to be.

• Height
• Weight
• Gender
• The gender you’re looking to meet
• Age
• Ethnicity
• Role (Dom, sub, switch, etc.)
• Who you’re looking to connect with (Single, couple, etc.)

Once you’ve provided those details, you’re going to start seeing some matches and the good news is that since Collarspace is a free site, you can connect with anyone that strikes your fancy.

This does not mean you can get away without a proper profile about yourself. This is a huge pet peeve of mine and I do not know how anyone joins any dating site without creating a profile college dating site for themselves. How in the world do you think you’re going to get matched with anyone or that anyone will want to contact you with a blank profile?